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Okay, there it is.
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Got it.
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Okay.
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Okay, hopefully it doesn't shut us down at 40 minutes, but maybe that's a good thing.
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People will be like, oh my god.
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Why?
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Why are you doing this to us?
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I mean,
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to be fair,
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Joe Rogan has podcasts that are like two hours long,
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which is just mind-boggling to me.
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Like, yeah, I could have
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like conversations that long but it's just like it's really hard to listen to I
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feel like I know I mean like I can do a movie but it has to be like hella like in
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that mindset to listen and sit for two hours exactly because like I I listen to his
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shit when I'm like meaning like literally like
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my version of mind-numbing TV almost to like none of the controversial ones like I
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listened to him and Roseanne Barr which she's freaking crazy by the way like whoa
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but anyway okay back on on on the train track welcome
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to the Curiosity Chronicles.
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I am your host, Taylor Cecilia Brooke, and with me I have the most wonderful Megan Lee.
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That's like what you're you're gonna go by, right?
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Just like Megan Lee.
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Okay, awesome.
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And we're just gonna have a
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casual discussion and really, really live up to the name of the Curiosity Chronicles.
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So I was thinking that it would be a good idea if you introduced yourself and just
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told everyone a little bit about yourself and like anything you think that's relevant.
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Okay.
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Let's see.
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This is the question that fucks me up the most when you're like, tell me about yourself.
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And I'm like, oh my God.
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I don't know how to do that.
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I literally have amnesia from all of my years on this planet.
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I'm like, I'm the most boring person.
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Um, yes.
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Um, let's see.
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So I, I live in the Midwest.
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I live in a boring,
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uh,
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flyover state,
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although I've,
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I've decided that I don't live in the most boring flyover state.
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So I have like that determination.
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Oh yeah.
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I probably live in the, I don't know.
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I lived in Kansas.
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That's a toss up.
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Like, okay.
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I'm in Oklahoma right now.
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And it's like, I don't know which one's more boring.
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Dee's from Nebraska.
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So it's like.
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So I'm in Wisconsin.
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I'm like, everyone is like the cheesehead state.
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So that's actually that's so funny.
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Dee's up there right now for work training.
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And we were looking at vacationing in Wisconsin Dells.
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Oh, I'm actually going there with my daughter next month because it's a blast.
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They've got like some killer deals on hotels,
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like cheap hotels that have,
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you get like a room for four nights,
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you get four passes to their water,
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to the big fancy water park,
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four passes to something else,
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and then like the hotel itself has like two pools or something,
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like one indoor,
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one outdoor,
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and they have like epic slides.
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I'm just like,
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What the fuck?
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Why isn't everywhere like this?
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Hey, you know what?
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I can probably rep my state on that front.
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And it's actually really a great destination for kids.
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Yeah, so it's definitely one we're going to keep on our list.
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But anyway, okay, so you're in the Midwest.
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Yes.
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Lovely Midwest.
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Glad we got that shame out of the way.
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I have an eight-year-old daughter, single mom.
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Been that way for most of the time.
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I was married a long time ago.
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Got married.
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married very young and mistakes were made, lessons were learned.
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But you know, I also, I love lessons that I've learned and I'm sure you can relate.
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You wouldn't be where you are today if you hadn't gone down those paths.
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So here we are.
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And oh my God, it's like before divorce, after divorce, before that, after that.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, I have all of those.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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And it's like,
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there was that turning point for me where I was like,
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okay,
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I now have to figure out a lot of shit on my own.
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And it's kind of, I feel like that was like about six years ago now.
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And it's kind of just been on this like path of being like, all right, who am I?
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What do I want to do with my life?
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How do I make a life that I actually love and want?
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And that just kind of has been the journey that I've been on the last several years.
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until present day I I feel all of that so much and like completely relate so who do
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you feel like you're stepping into like being are you do you feel like you're
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getting closer to who you think like your your highest self is or where do you
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think you are in that process
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Oh, Jesus.
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I feel like some days I'm really feeling good about myself.
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And I'm like, yes, this is what life is about.
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This is amazing.
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Like I'm journaling and like faith, manifestation, quantum physics.
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And then the next day I'm like in this hole of shit.
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And I'm like, what hole did I crawl into?
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And how do I get out?
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I literally, like, two days ago, it was like, yes, all these affirmations.
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I was feeling them.
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I was feeling everything.
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And then, like, earlier today, I was fucking bawling in the garage while smoking.
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Why?
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Oh, my God.
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I do feel like it's,
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if I look at myself on a map,
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I'm like,
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okay,
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I have definitely grown in the last,
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you know,
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six years.
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And with growth comes more awareness and more awareness makes you be like,
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holy shit,
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I have so much more to learn.
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It's like a double edged sword.
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It really is.
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For sure.
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Yeah, I totally I totally get that.
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And I feel that because it's just like.
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It's hard not to compare because they're not kidding when they say comparison is
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the thief of joy,
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you know,
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so it's like you're trying to not compare,
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but you're
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that bitch is like, you need to go, you need to go look like you need, you need to compare yourself.
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Damn it.
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Oh my God.
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That's, that's one of the things that fucks me up the most in my life.
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I really believe it's comparing, comparing myself.
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That is something that like ruminates in my mind.
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I'm like,
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if I could just fix the comparisonitis,
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like disease that I have permeating my body,
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my life would be perfect.
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I wouldn't care.
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There'd be no yardstick.
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I would have this elusive inner peace that I think is like the highest standard and
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that everything would fall into place.
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And I'm like, why is it so goddamn hard for me to not, like, why can't I just mind my own business?
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Why am I like looking around what everyone else is doing?
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Fucking for real.
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Like, I will say that I feel like I found that it was
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It's a lot easier to not do it as much.
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Like the bursts of that comparison are less than they were when I was like really
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heavy on Instagram and Facebook and Pinterest.
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I don't know if you feel the same way,
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but like with Substack,
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it feels like there are days where I'm like,
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oh my God,
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I want to be her.
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But that's about as far as it goes.
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Yeah.
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It's not as much as like,
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oh my god,
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they have this many subscribers and they're doing this and they're doing that.
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So...
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I feel that I actually got off of Instagram.
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I mean, that was, and TikTok, like the main ones, like two years ago now.
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And because it was,
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it was getting to this point where I like the likes and you know,
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who is responding to my stuff and who is engaging.
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And it was just such a energy suck of mine.
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And I had so much, I like got so much validation out of it.
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And it was so amazing.
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Wrong.
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It was so shallow.
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It was so empty.
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And so I was like, I can't, I can't do that anymore.
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And I agree.
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Substack feels very different because it's, it's not as like external focused.
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It's a lot more like reflection and people sharing their thoughts and it feels a lot more genuine.
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And, and I still, it's not necessarily Substack that I compare myself to.
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I just...
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I don't know.
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I have these chips on my shoulder that are my own chips on my shoulders,
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but like for certain things,
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like with my career or like life goals,
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it's like,
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oh,
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how are these people doing it?
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And I'm not.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I'm like, yeah, no, I do get that.
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I get that for sure.
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So if you can, like, tell us a little bit about like,
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what your day job kind of looks like with like what you do without like revealing
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anything that you don't want to reveal,
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obviously.
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Yes.
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So I'm in the marketing space.
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I work at a,
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It's a interesting intersection because it's in the,
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I'm doing air quotes,
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public affairs space,
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because that is something like three years ago,
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I'd have been like,
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what the fuck is public affairs?
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I would have been like, I'm going to pretend I know what it means, but I don't know what it means.
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And so...
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I quickly learned that it's not the same thing as politics and people will look at
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you like you're sideways if you think that public affairs and politics are the same thing.
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So it's, you know, we're helping nonprofits, we're working in that space.
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And I also have realized that I
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Again, I'm like, oh my God, my employer can never know that this exists.
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But I just, I don't have any desire to be anywhere near the political adjacent space anymore at all.
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Like I'm so, so done with it.
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And that's not to say that there's not great people in there that,
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that can exist,
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but they're the exception.
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And, and so it's just, I like marketing.
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I like certain parts of marketing,
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but why I got into marketing,
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why I thought I wanted to get into like the political side of it no longer exists
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in any way,
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shape or form within me at all.
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And so, um,
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Even in the role that I do right now,
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I kind of work as like a doing video producing role and working on the creative
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team on creative projects.
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The stuff that I really love doing,
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to be honest,
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just kind of gets like lost in what I get to in what I do.
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And it's my like, yeah, it's just it's not it's not there.
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So it's actually a really big pain point.
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It's actually going to make it into my newsletter tomorrow that's coming out about the woes of my job.
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So.
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Ooh, I'm excited to read that.
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I love your newsletters.
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Thank you.
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I got to say though,
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like this,
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it's funny that you brought that up because I,
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my job has been very much a source of angst for me lately.
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Yeah.
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I feel that.
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I actually have a post coming out about that.
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On next Thursday.
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I think.
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Yes.
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Yeah.
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So yeah.
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I do very much.
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Understand that.
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Like my current job right now.
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Like I'm good at it.
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And I don't.
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Hate it.
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But like.
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It's just not like.
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what I need anymore so yeah it's just like there's just other things that I feel
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like it's like the universe is telling me it's time to like it's time to do some
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other things now but like you're saying that shit like there when you have like
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other people i.e.
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little things relying on you like it's not as simple as just like oh let's just try this it's not no
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It's like you feel, you're like, oh my God, I have a job.
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I'm employed.
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I'm getting paid every month.
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And it's like to want more or want outside of that,
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either you feel guilty,
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you feel like you're going to rock the boat.
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Like what if you crack something open that you can't recover from?
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It's like, oh my God.
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All of that, literally all of that.
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It's so, and like, it doesn't matter how many fucking like,
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empowerment books you fucking read like it just it's uh when you've been in that
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position it's just so difficult to get out of i actually think the most recent book
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that i just finished um was i think it's called we should all be millionaires or
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something like that um
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It's been my favorite money book so far because she was a single mom who grew up in
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poverty and like was really broke.
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She had like no money in college, had, you know, three, like so much debt, so much debt.
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And I was like, oh, I can actually relate to all of this now.
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Now I didn't grow up in like true poverty, but you know, wasn't like, we were like lower middle class.
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And I, yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, it's been a journey with my finances since then.
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Oh, my God.
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The money scarcity, the money fear.
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That one's a hard one for me to work through.
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There are some deep, deep-seated, I feel like generational shit that is hard to overcome.
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Yeah, and it sucks because I agree.
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There's some serious generational shit that I don't know what they are because –
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they weren't mine and I have no access to those people, but like, they have to come from somewhere.
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And like,
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I see the patterns and I'm,
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I was the one next in line for that when it's,
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you know,
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going through and I have no access to the person who started it.
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But I'm assuming it has something to do with the Great Depression.
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I mean, logically, that makes a lot of sense.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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That's the only thing where I'm like, okay, maybe.
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I'm like, you know what?
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I can kind of give those ancestors a pass.
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That would be some hard shit to go through.
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Oh, for sure.
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Like, I can't.
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I can't even imagine,
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like,
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if you think about what happened during the French Revolution,
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like,
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that wasn't that much earlier.
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And they were literally fucking burning money in barrels to warm up because that
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was cheaper than,
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like,
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paying for stuff.
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Because their, like, whatever their dollar was, I don't remember, had lost all its value.
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And I just remember, like, the first time I learned that, my mind just, like, breaking.
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Yeah.
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what how could that how does that even happen I know that's insane that's insane
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super insane okay now that we've gone off topic for the one trillionth time because
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that's the theme in my life um what is like
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Okay,
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first,
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tell us a little bit about your sub stack and like what your goals and dreams are
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with them.
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Yeah, so I've always loved writing.
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That's like the one common thread that I can piece together through my life.
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And I'm like, writing makes sense.
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I feel alive.
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I love it.
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It brings me joy, all this kind of stuff.
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And so I had started like...
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marketing side hustle business like several years ago and I built up a little
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newsletter and then I was like well I want to go into like politics and make the
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world a better place so I just like shut that all down like ghosted for like four
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years and so I
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But hearing about Substack and I was like, you know what?
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This sounds really cool.
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I've been feeling this like urge,
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you know,
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inside of you where your soul is just like,
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it needs to write.
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It needs to be seen.
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And I had just like, I was like really insecure about it.
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I'm like, oh, but the stuff I want to write about, I'm like, I don't know, man.
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How is this going to come across?
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It's either going to be like people get it or they're like stone me, you know?
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So I...
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I don't know.
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It was just,
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it's that point where it's like,
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okay,
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either you're going to be miserable because you don't do it or you're just going to like,
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go ahead and do it.
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So I was like, all right, I'm going to create this sub stack and thank the Lord.
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I was from the get-go.
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I was myself.
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I was like, I'm just going to put it out there.
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And so I,
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Um,
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it's just,
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it's,
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I started it with a different name and now it's called Shane sandwich because I
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realized a lot of the stuff that was coming out was I wanted to talk about just be authentic,
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just share the shit that's inside of me.
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It feels good.
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I like doing it.
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I want to connect with other people.
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And so it's, it's just kind of, it's funny.
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Number one, I want to make people laugh.
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I love laughter.
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I think it's very cathartic and very healing.
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So it's, uh, sometimes it's just funny.
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Sometimes it's,
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talking about shame, like my own shame, my own journey to live my own best life.
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And ultimately the goal with it is to inspire other people to live their best life
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by living my own best life,
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leading by example.
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And I guess long-term goal, I would love to monetize it.
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I would love to get paid for my writing.
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That
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Now, the fucked up, like, oh, my God, well, how are you going to do this?
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How are you going to do that?
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How in the world can you make that happen?
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Going on inside my brain right now is a whole other conversation.
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But when I can silence those bitches, that would be amazing.
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I want to write books, memoirs.
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like coffee table swearing books, like all, all the above.
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So I love that idea.
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Oh my God.
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That'd be so fucking fun.
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That is a book I would actually put on a coffee table if I had a coffee table,
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but I would put it on my bookcase for sure.
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Like as a display book, like it would be so fun.
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Oh my God.
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I love that idea.
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Did you see that?
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I'm blanking on her name.
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Maggie.
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The other one who swears a lot?
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Oh, Maggie John, yes.
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Yes, yes, okay.
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Did you see my comment?
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She said something about, oh yeah, the holy swearity.
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No, I don't think I saw that.
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Was that from earlier today?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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They called, she's like, we could be the holy swearity.
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And I was like, that'd be a good podcast name.
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That is hilarious.
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That is a good podcast name.
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Oh my God.
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I love it.
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Yeah.
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You posted somewhere.
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It was in one of your newsletters where you wanted like, you're like, can we just have like,
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a group like where we say fuck it yeah the fucking mastermind yeah and we pay to be
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like there like it's like monthly we hold each other accountable did you see how
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many people were like yes I'm in uh I don't know maybe there's been more people
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that I haven't seen after the fact there was probably like I think like five people
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were like yeah let's do this like I'm in I would love this I'm just like this is
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great oh my god
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So I have had that dream of doing the Fuck It Mastermind.
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I was actually in this mastermind like several years ago and I loved it.
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It was like such a cool experience.
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Like I realized I love like the community of like accountability,
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number one,
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because otherwise I will like fuck myself over.
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Yeah.
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yep big time yes I'm so good at procrastination good so god so I was like oh my god
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this mastermind it feels so cool you can like bounce ideas out of people you can
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talk to people that get it or in the trenches and I was like I want to do that and
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then I was like oh but it like it has to be like the fucking mastermind like fuck
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it live your best life you know so this has been like a dream for like years all
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that to say so that would be amazing okay so if it's a dream how do we fucking make
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this happen then because like
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there's clearly interest and i'm like all for all that kind of shit and i'm like
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the ultimate hype girl which is where lucy my youngest gets that from like if you
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need a fucking cheerleader in her in your life she is your girl she can cheer you
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on even when you're losing like she's just the sweetest oh my god that's so cute
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she said to me literally on the phone just now she's like
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I just want you to be with me forever, mommy.
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Oh, that's so precious.
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That melts my heart.
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I know.
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I know.
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I know.
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But anyway, we should definitely like brainstorm on how we should do this.
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It's so funny because literally earlier when I was listening to the We Should All Be Millionaires book,
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I was at the very end and you have this challenge where like they challenge you to make 10K in 10 days.
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And it's like brainstorm ways to do this.
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And I was like, huh, interesting.
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And so I just started like thinking about different things.
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And I was like, okay, what could I host?
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Because it talks about a lot of things like masterminds and stuff like that, retreats.
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And I was like, what could I do?
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Because I don't have anything to really teach anybody.
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Not that I'm actually passionate about, you know.
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Like, I can't teach people how to talk without an off button.
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That's just genetic.
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But then you said it's your dream.
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And I was like, okay, well, for her, we need to figure out how to make this happen for you.
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Because, like, you deserve to see your dreams come true.
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And I feel like that's, like, something that people would be, like, 100% in for.
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So, yeah.
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Oh, you're such a sweet hype woman.
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Your daughter, if she's, like, I know she's like you.
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That is the sweetest combination.
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Oh, my God.
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You guys are so cute.
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I love it.
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Okay.
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So, now that we have gotten all of the
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basics out of the way let's see i don't even know how to tell how much time we have
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left so annoying i know there should be like a countdown for real up front with
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this stuff right oh well okay so what okay
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after like being on the platform this this time like how long have you been on the
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platform I joined at the end of May I believe so like two months I think okay okay
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dang good job I did come with
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I know,
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I did come with,
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I had my little,
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my existing list that I had ghosted for three years that I brought with me,
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which I don't think any of them are like,
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I don't know what they're doing.
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I have no idea what they think of me.
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They're probably like, who the hell is this crazy person?
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Yeah, that's how I feel like about the tiny little list that I brought over too.
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I think there's probably only like three people like in that whole list that
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actually read any of my shit.
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I know.
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you know what it like made me feel better I was like at least I know I'm not gonna
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be talking to zero people exactly yes like I was like okay well at least this last
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year fucking peddling myself all over Facebook and Pinterest and Instagram gave me
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something yeah exactly so okay
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Shit.
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I've completely lost my train of thought.
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I hate when this happens.
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Okay.
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Let's do something fun.
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What is the weirdest thing about you?
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And I'll answer so you don't feel alone.
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Oh, Jesus.
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Okay.
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I hate myself,
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but the first thing that popped into my head when you said that is I can make some
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of the weirdest facial expressions,
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which I don't want to do right now.
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But
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Okay, you want to know something really funny?
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I don't even know where I saw.
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I think it was like a book from the library I got my daughter.
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And it was like, I think it was Olympic.
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Or no, what's that thing called?
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They have the world records.
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The Guinness Book of World Records?
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Guinness Book of World Records.
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And there was this thing in there.
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I think it's called ghouling.
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And there's a competition for contorting your face into the weirdest shapes.
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And Taylor, I'm not kidding you.
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I was like...
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i'm normal i'm like you need to tell me there's more of me oh my god it is the i i
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don't know i've never seen anybody like make the weirdest faces my daughter i'll do
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it either she thinks it's she's like getting older now and sometimes she thinks
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it's like mom but she also thinks it's hilarious so very weird i swear like i i
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swear somehow we are we we are related because like
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okay so this is a thing about me and it's hilarious because my daughter does it too
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uh when i was a kid i would like stand in front of the mirror and like just make
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the strangest faces like you know see how far my tongue can reach in different
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directions i taught myself like i eventually figured out how to wiggle my ears and
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that kind of stuff
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So funny.
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I know.
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And like, I'm a very animated talker.
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I've literally like thrown things and knocked shit over while talking because I'm
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moving my hands too fucking much.
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My ex-husband used to hold my hands when I would talk because it pissed him off so much.
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Red flag.
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Right?
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I literally, I wrote down a title for an article, flags that I thought were green that were actually red.
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Oh my God.
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That is such a good title.
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I would read the shit out of that.
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Yeah, so, but the facial expressions, I make the craziest ones.
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And Lucy,
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like,
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she has,
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like,
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this whole world in her head that is not even relevant to everything else outside
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in reality.
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And
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she will just be sitting there and she's like making all of these like super funny
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faces and she's just thinking about like what it's like if she rode a dragon with
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her stepsister through the candy cane forest like it's so precious i love it oh i
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know somehow i raised like this like
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little doll but I mean we also have our intricacies because that's like all
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children but the faces I've caught her doing them in the mirror oh my god that's so
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crazy how genetics work that's fascinating yeah yeah so cute
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Well, and I've learned so much about genetics within the last like six, seven years, six years, really.
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Cause like it,
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I mean,
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everything started with learning all about the stuff with Lily and like how all of
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that happened and how to prevent it and all that stuff.
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And it just like went off from there.
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I really enjoy like genetics and epigenetics and that kind of stuff.
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So it is super interesting to,
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But I do I do think that there's a little bit of like, oh, we have 10 minutes.
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OK, that's good to know.
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We will wrap this up.
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I do think there's a little there was a little bit of reflecting that she learned
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how to talk like that because for like.
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For, like, 14 months, it was really just me and her all day, every day.
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And I had no one to talk to because I lived in bumfuck nowhere Oklahoma and bumfuck nowhere Texas.
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And I was alone with just her and the dog.
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And she was the only thing I had to talk to.
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So... Talked all day.
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And, I mean, she was, like, talking, talking by the time she was one.
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Are you serious?
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Oh, yeah.
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Like, she was... She had...
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like two she could do two full sentences by the time she was 18 months like she can
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talk her vocabulary is like insane like blows my mind she's cattywampus correctly i
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was like the fuck that is amazing
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But,
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okay,
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is there anything,
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like,
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before we close this up,
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is there anything that,
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like,
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you wanted to ask or wanted to say or wanted to promote or anything like that?
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I'm terrible with on-the-spot questions.
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I don't think so.
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I would just say the message that I guess I always want to promote and that I'm always,
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like,
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trying to tell myself and everyone else is just,
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be yourself,
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even if it's like messy right now,
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even if you're not sure what exactly like the next phase of your journey is going
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to be like,
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like just do it because that's the only thing that's going to lead to any sense of clarity.
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It's the only thing that's going to lead to any sense of like peace about yourself
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and acceptance and all that kind of stuff.
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So being on Substack these last, you know, two months, cause I've been here for so long.
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If it's, if it's shown me anything, it is that
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Nothing feels better than, than being yourself.
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And that doesn't mean that it's,
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you know,
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you're going to figure yourself,
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yourself out right away that it's going to be like,
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oh my God,
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everything is perfect.
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And I never have like demons in my head that are like,
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you know,
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telling me like,
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oh,
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you're never going to get anywhere.
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Definitely doesn't mean that,
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but it's much better,
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better than the alternative of,
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of not doing the thing that,
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you know,
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you're meant to be doing.
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So yeah, I need to hear that.
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And whoever needs to hear that, that's for you as well.
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I love it.
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I love it.
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And it's 100% true.
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And I think that is one of the things that I love the most about Substack.
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Like, the fact that you and I can just sit here and cuss as much as we fucking want.
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Like, I feel zero need to filter myself at all.
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And it's really cool because, like, the rest of the platforms, you can't do that.
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No.
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Honestly, Taylor, I was so excited to talk to you tonight because I...
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was like,
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I don't have to worry about being somebody else or being like professional or worry
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about what I'm going to say.
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And that's so rare.
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I mean, first of all, you're a fabulous human being.
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Like, I love you.
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You're amazing.
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And so like you definitely create that space,
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but it's also,
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you know,
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like Substack also welcomes that and is,
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you know,
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conducive to that.
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So I agree.
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It's really cool.
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Yeah, and that means a lot because that's really what my goal is.
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Like,
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I just want people to feel like they have a space where they can feel safe to be
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their weird motherfucking self.
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Like,
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for all the people who like to cuss like sailors,
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but they're pretty little girls,
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like,
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we've got you.
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We've got a little corner for you over here.
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It's great over here.
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Right?
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Like, I'm like, it's great.
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It's great.
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So,
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and,
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like,
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I can do things,
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like,
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talk about,
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like,
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literally have,
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like,
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potentially the dead kid club,
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you know?
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Like, that shit, like, every other platform has been, like, when I've, like, even thrown that out there.
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They're just, like, they can't handle the...
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bluntness of it which is just like what that's what it is all of us have children
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that died like how do you why do we need to sugarcoat it um so thank you that means
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a lot and it was an absolute pleasure absolute pleasure talking with you and i'm
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super excited to work on your uh little uh
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bucket mastermind which works perfectly with my like love of unfucking shit i love
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that um and can so you're you're on sub stack and that's about it correct correct
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yes okay awesome and what is your sub stack handle and it's the newsletter name is
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shame sandwich correct
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Yes, and I believe the, it might be actually my name, at Megan Lee, my handle.
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That's actually a good question.
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Yeah, I think mine's at Taylor Cecilia Brigg.
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I just changed the name of my sub stack, though.
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Did you see that?
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No, like, just like...
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i changed it today i think i think it was yesterday i changed it to the chaos
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chronicles ah i love that but i told you i love that name because i i think that oh
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no curiosity no this is the curiosity chronicles yes and then okay yeah and then we
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have the daily chronicles of taylor cecilia brooke and i was like okay let's just
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call this the fucking cure the chaos chronicles because that's really what it is i
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create chaos and then i organize it you know
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That's brilliant.
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I love that.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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All right.
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Well, it has been an absolute joy.
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And if you have not checked out Megan,
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you absolutely need to because she's fucking hilarious and I love her so much and
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I'm so happy you were able to join me and we will definitely be doing this again.
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And I think we'll bring in Maggie next time.
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Oh, I love that idea.
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And have more than 40 minutes because apparently we need that.
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So this felt like 20 minutes tops.
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Like this is crazy.
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For real.
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I'm like, I don't understand how this just happened.
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I love it.
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Thank you so much for having me on.
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This was so much fun.
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You're amazing.
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Absolutely.
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Absolutely.
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All right.
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I'm going to go ahead and...
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